I've updated this post because the challenge of late spring, summer and the sleeveless dress is pretty much here, and because I love to go sleeveless. There are plenty of long sleeved and three quarter sleeved options out there, but how much more enjoyable to be able to bare it all and show off toned arms.
How to tone your arms is easily solved, particularly with the above Pilates Perfect Body Arms video (from YouTube), but you need to get going right now and give a few minutes each day to get results. This is the best way I have found to tone my arms. Of course you can use much heavier weights and do other exercises instead but this seriously works and you can do it at home.
Don't think this is difficult, nor that age bears any relation to whether or not you can have sleek smooth sexy arms and shoulders - all it takes is a bit of time and motivation - after all, who wants to cover up all of the time?
Going on diets, cardio at the gym or anywhere else, resistance training - all are great. Spot toning is what will succeed on those areas that you specifically want to improve, be they arms, waist, core, bum or thighs. Don’t listen to anyone who says they don’t work, they do. And I know these things.
I go to a gym when I travel, and work out at home when I’m in the UK. It’s worth building up a small amount of kit to use at home, in this case particularly hand weights, then there are no excuses, you don’t have to go out and you can use any spare moments you have. I use 1.5kg weights to do the arms Pilates section and they get really heavy after a short time. I suggest if you're a beginner you start with .5kg but get a couple of weights up as well.
Be aware that what seem to be light weights to start with get heavy very quickly as you do a lot of repetitions, so start with something easy. You'll probably be surprised how quickly, if you do one of these routines regularly, you can do a heavier weight. John Lewis have hand weights that go up to 4kg (pictured above) and they go up in 1kg rises.
Cindy Whitmarsh 10 Minute Solutions Arms
Pilates Perfect Body Arms
Rapid Results Pilates Arms Workout
You can also look at something like these Fitness Mad neoprene dumbells (delivery is free).